- Freelancing is persistent loneliness and constant rejection.
- The ratio of rejections to successes is probably something like 19:1 – brutal!
- You work alone at home so you turn on the TV for company but end up watching it thinking Gordon Ramsay’s Kitchen Nightmares is the most important thing ever.
- It’s easy to get caught up in a cycle of your own thoughts with no external influences so you have mini crises on an hourly basis.
- You drink too much tea or coffee and end up having mild anxiety attacks before you realise what you’ve done.
- You try to work in the library to avoid that feeling of being trapped at home but realise that most people just go to the library to kill time out of the cold, so it’s not a great place to work.
- You make stupid mistakes with admin because you’re a writer, not an administrator, and you feel like an idiot.
- You think you’ll have more time to change the world / pursue your dreams / watch funny videos, but you don’t because building a business is harder than having a job.
- You think it’ll get easier to network and reach out to clients but it doesn’t because you’re an introvert and the world is far too stimulating.
- Becoming a freelancer still rocks and even though most days are difficult, nothing worth achieving was ever easy. You’ll find a way to keep going.
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Catherine Heath is a freelance blogger and copywriter for B2B SaaS companies. She’s obsessed with the field of personality systems theory, and she also likes drawing, yoga, meditation and being in nature.
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